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Five Fashion Faux Pas When It Comes To Wearing Trainers

Trainers and sneakers have come a long way from the gym – today you’ll find them on fashion runways and catwalks as urban wear is well truly the latest craze in the fashion world. Brands such as Puma, Nike and Onitsuka Tiger sneakers are becoming all the rage – and they sport the hefty designer price tags to match. Many top of the line lables are lending a hand in stylising and creating – not a sneaker, but really a pair of footwear art. While sneaker traditions are certainly being cast aside, there are still a number of steadfast fashion no-no’s when it comes to trainer wear.

Don’t be caught making one of these classic fashion faux pas:

White Sneakers with Black Jeans – made famous by Jerry Seinfeld, but still cringe worthy unless you want to be labelled a geek. However, there are some new takes on this traditional fashion-don’t, with celebrities like Justin Timberlake hitting the red carpet in white sneakers and a black suit for the MTV Video Music Awards. However, unless you liken your fashion conscience to those of Timberlake – it’s probably best to steer clear.

Ditch the Visible Sock, especially dark ones – we all should know white socks with dress shoes and dark trousers are a bad idea, but the opposite is also true. If you’re sporting light coloured sneaks, stay away from the long black tube socks. Instead, opt for low cut socks that stop just at your ankle, especially if you’ll be wearing them with shorts.

Hybrid Recall – the cars may be all the rage, but you’re not fooling anyone with a hybrid sneaker. Trainers that pose as dress shoes, with leather tops and sporty soles, are just trying to be something they’re not. They don’t make a good impression at work and certainly won’t fit in at the gym, so the best place for them is the back of your closet!

Wrong Way to Walk to Work – women have been doing it for years, but much to our dismay, men are picking up the trend of wearing their gym trainers with their work clothes for the daily commute. Guys, if you really can’t take the hard leather soles on your delicate feet, stick to a pair of stylish Merrell shoes or similar street shoes with your suits, not $400 cross trainers with fluorescent orange racing stripes. (See next point)

A Fine Line – continuing from the point above, there is a fine line between trainers for the street and trainers for training. Sport sneakers belong in the gym or on the court so use your running shoes, cross trainers and tennis shoes for the purposes that they were designed for and limit your daily wear to Converse sneakers or casual street shoes.

Man-woman relationship in Vijay Tendulkar’s Sakharam Binder and Silence! The court is in session

Man-woman relationship in Vijay Tendulkar’s Sakharam Binder and Silence! The court is in session

Introduction: Vijay Tendulkar can be acknowledged as the precursor of modern Indian English drama. His contribution is marvellous and bulky in the development of modern dramatic sensibility. Though he didn’t write much more in English, the translated work from Marathi to English is really mind blowing. Born in Kolhapur and grown up in common Brahmin family he began to write when he was only six years old. He didn’t believe in idealism as his many plays derived inspiration from real life incidents or social upheavals which provides clear light on harsh realities. So I would like to say that Indian literature is fortunate enough to produce a versatile genius like Vijay Tendulkar whose contribution is remarkable not only in the development of the Indian English drama but also lies in providing proper name and magnitude to Modern Indian English drama . Man and woman are impartial parts of this world. Man is not complete without woman and woman is not complete without man. World has no value without man and woman. All the things happen here for man and woman and sometimes due to man and woman. Every religious book has a centre i.e. man and woman. All the things around them are made for them. Though they are made by god, their relationship is not made by themselves. The different things like culture, history, religion, society affect on their relationship. I am going to find out the complexities between man and woman with the help of Vijay Tendulkar’s selected plays. These plays are very typical in the sense of man-woman relationship. In Silence! The court is in session Miss Leela Benare is used by all male characters for their fun that terribly attack on her adulterous nature. Sakharam Binder presents relax and free life of Sakharam regarding the use of women which handles man-woman relationship in South – Asia. He justifies all his acts through claims of modern, unconventional thinking, and comes up with hollow arguments meant in fact to enslave women. It was also one of the most famous dramas by late Vijay Tendulkar. The play was greatly appreciated by critics all over the world. For its critical nature and direct touch to social problem it was banned in India in early 70s.

1. Man-woman relationship in Sakharam Binder: Tendulkar himself was very interested in focusing on man-woman relationship and he did so in his plenty of plays. He shows the terrible and harsh reality of man and woman in Sakharam Binder. It deals with the topic of male domination over female. As a man of modernism and devoid of ethics and morality, Sakharam, the hero of this play opposes the outdated social codes and conventional marriage systems as he doesn’t believe in wedlock society and behaves like an outsider with the women who come into contact of him. He hates society and its laws of wedlock that is why he doesn’t want any permanent partner. So he gives shelter to abandoned wives and uses them to fulfil his sexual desires. He is far away from feelings and emotions. He loads all his household duties to enslave women. Why does he behave so? Who is responsible for his cruel behaviour? I think the elements like culture; history, religion, and society around him are responsible to make him so. He was born in Brahmin society but his parents failed to civilise him. His father would beat him terribly so he ran away from his house when he was eleven years old. Being a man he had some physical desirers and was impossible to live except fulfilling them. As he was against to social system, he disliked to have any wives so he began to bring abandoned women to do household duties and share his bed. Sakharam captures the strange and complex pathology and seems to want to please his “birds” even as he bullies them and who speaks like a free thinking crusader for women’s rights one minute and like a philistine scornful of their devotion to him the next. Sakharam is a bookbinder who prides himself on his lack of regard for cultural dictates. He looks at himself as progressive: smoking, drinking and laughing off the mockery and disgust of the villagers as they watch him lead these tainted wives to his home, a new one on the heels of each former woman’s departure. 1.1.Relationship between Sakharam and Lakshmi: The play opens with seventh woman, Lakshmi following Sakharam to his door. When she comes, he informs this dainty, suffering woman of the rules of the house, and of his requirements. It almost seems he is bluffing when he brutally warns in his practiced orientation speech that he is hotheaded and likely to revert to violence. He rules his home like a tin-pot tyrant, yet Lakshmi is told that she is free to leave whenever she likes. He will even give her a sari, 50 rupees and a ticket to wherever she wants to go. “Everything good and proper, where Sakharam Binder is concerned,” he says. “He’s no husband to forget common decency.” What he doesn’t anticipate are the moral and emotional complications of this arrangement, which prove heartbreakingly ruinous to everyone involved. Lakshmi is very religious but not so attractive. Sakharam treats her like a slave and uses her for different purposes. She lives with him for a year and he annoys her so much. One day he beat her so horribly that she couldn’t bear his tyranny. When he came to know that she is not enduring all this, he decided to send her to her nephew living in Amalner. Here the question rises, why was he troubling her? As she was religious and moral, she turned him into religious, made him to have a bath daily but it didn’t affect anymore on his personal nature. Poor Lakshmi gets her head smashed against the wall. She endures all things because she is woman while he tortures because he is a man. What had he wanted from Lakshmi? Why couldn’t Lakshmi give those things that he wanted? These questions are answered with the arrival of Champa. Sakharam’s tragedy turns out to pivot on his maturing social consciousness, his arrested enlightenment. He can see – almost – an idea of equality and shared humanity that transcends individual appetite, but nothing in his life) ever encourages him to follow its logic. So he makes his own philosophy of life. It is -Maybe I’m a rascal, a womanizer, a pauper. Why may be? I am all that. And I drink. But I must be respected in my own house. I’m the master here,” Binder tells Lakshmi. And he ends with one final requirement: “You’ll have to be a wife to me, and anyone with a little sense will know what to make of that.” The strapping actor impregnates his character with the unselfconscious mannerisms and prowling unpredictability of an undomesticated animal, reveling in his own bodily interjections — spitting, scratching, digesting –and indulging his appetite for food, drink and sex with an animal satisfaction that is uneasy to watch at best. Lusty and greedy, Sakharam partakes in life’s pleasures and the woman in his company as a means of furthering his quotidian satisfaction. Lakshmi’s fiercely religious and pious nature enflames Sakharam, and after much brutality is heaped on her, she lashes out at him verbally and is kicked out of the house. Sakhakam’s wildness, Lakshmi’s kindness and Champa’s brightness do not go side by side, and their psychology to live life does not resemble each other so their relationship failed. If one looks another with a view of animal, how will such a relationship succeed? 1.2 Relationship between Sakharam and Champa: The entry of Champa is really attractive. Being a wife of dismissed Fouzdar Shinde, her living style is so reach but Sakharam looks at her as the machine of fulfilling desires. She is curvy, sensuous, frank and, because she walked out on her pining husband, has the illusion of choice as a bargaining tool. Her lack of concern and disregard for Binder’s instructions combined with her flirty intensity renders him speechless. The power shifts, making him glassy-eyed and useless. As she is beautiful lady, she tries to utilize it to live life. When she came to know that she doesn’t have anything, she makes herself to sell her body to anyone who might fulfil her all desires. The play unfolds with considerable comedic brio which escalates when the spunky, gorgeous Champa enters Sakharam’s humble little home. It’s quickly apparent that Champa causes the bookbinder’s self confidence to become as unglued as the pages not bound correctly in the bindery where he works. However, there is nothing comic about what amounts to repeated rape scenes. Unfortunately, the sign, that Sakharam is not just hot-tempered, but sadistic put him beyond comedic redemption. His cruelty intensifies with the heat of his passion and the second act veers straight into operatic territory. The abuse now turns even nastier. Even trimming some of the fat from this curry of sexual tensions would not save Sakharam Binder from being an overly melodramatic tragedy and too mean-spirited to be the comedy with a serious underlying theme that it could have been. 2. Man-woman relationship in Silence! The court is in session “Silence! The Court Is in Session” is a milestone in the history of whole Marathi as well Indian English drama. Tendulkar became the centre of general controversy. He was already called the epithet of the angry young man of the Marathi theatre. The theatre group is Silence! The Court Is in Session, attending a mock drama, actually a mock trial of Miss Benare, which comes to perform at a village, is a miniscule cross-section of middle class society, the member representative of its different sub-strata, their character, dialogues, gestures and even mannerisms reflect their petty, circumscribed existences fraught with frustrations and repressed desires that find expression in their malicious and spiteful attitudes towards their fellow beings. Leela Benare, the central character of the play, possess a natural lust for life, she ignores social norms and dictates. Beings different from others she is easily isolated and made the victim of a cruel game cunningly planned by her co-actors. 2.1 Relationship between Co-actors and Miss Benare: During the first half of the play, Benare is able to outsmart her co-actors. She is not caught in their trap. But the second half of the play witnesses a mock trial of Benare that is actually a trial of the whole female race in the country. It shows our hypocrisy, our double standards regarding men and women. Benare is accused of cheap conduct, of wooing men .of fulfilling her bodily needs. But the intellectual, the absent university professor .Damle who is equally a part of the bad conduct, is not at all held responsible. The very fact that he does not turn up speaks for his sense of responsibility towards this strained woman, Benare. Being pregnant from Prof. Damle she requests two of her colleagues at the drama company to marry her. But obviously enough, they are more smart. They also refuse to attach their names with her. During the mock trial she is labelled by all words. 2.2 Relationship between Prof. Damle and Miss Benare: The beginning of Benare’s exploitation begins with her uncle who had exploited her sexually when she was only of fourteen. As he was uncle it was no question of getting married to him. She starts her life all over again, studies and becomes a teacher. As a teacher she comes in contact with Prof. Damle whom she considers quite intelligent and academically superior man. Though married, the professor exploits her sexually and naturally refuses to marry her. When she became pregnant from him, she began to search a father of unborn child for avoiding a social wrath and humiliation. Prof Damle has been spread the iron rod. It is Benare who is accused of immortality, sin, promiscuity, over sexuality. The verdict dismisses her from her school job, orders for abortion, and blackens Leela Benare’s name. 2.3 Relationship between Mr. Kashikar and Mrs. Kashikar: Mr. Kashikar is always seen with his wife. The pair of this husband-wife is a super hypocrite, leading a false life that is devoid of any meaning. Tendulkar brings out the hollowness of their life so well. Mr. Kashikar buys flowers for wife. Mrs. Kashikar buys shirts for husband. They make a constant show of fondles in public. Their perpetual show of love becomes distasteful and repulsive. Mr. Kashikar does not let the wife speak at all. Whenever she tries to give an opinion her husbands shuts her up. Miss Benare’s private life is exposed and publicly dissected, revealing her illicit love affair with Professor Damle, a married man with a family, which has resulted in her pregnancy, Interestingly, the accusation brought her at the beginning of the trail that of infanticide turns into the verdict at the conclusion, principally because contemporary Indian society with its roots grounded firmly in reactionary ideas, cannot allow the birth of a child out of wedlock. This very reversal in the attitude of the authorities expresses the basic hypocrisy and double standards on which our society is founded. It is poignant, sensitive and highlights the vulnerability of women in our society but a good thing occurred that Tendulkar received. In Silence! The Court is in Session Vijay Tendulkar takes the covers off a traditionalist society, to show us just what it is capable of when given the power to lord over those who live by their own rules. With a drama in a drama, the play revolves around theatre group about to perform a play in a village. As the plot thickens the comforting mist of ‘pretend’ starts to dissolve revealing the frustrated, bitter and jaded lives of the performers. Light years ahead of its times, Silence… exposes the dark side of middle class morality, where judgments are passed by the minute and silence is often the only recourse left to the defendant.

Conclusion: Love is the most beautiful feeling that has been created by God and the basic foundation of a relation that exists between a man and a woman is love. A Man Woman Relationship is the most beautiful relationship on this earth but there are many people who do not hesitate to insult this relationship. It should also be noted that the relationship that a man and a woman share is not devoid of complexities. Therefore to have a successful Man Woman Relationship one needs to reflect on the various aspects that are associated with the relationship of love. In both the dramas, I found how man is responsible to destroy a lovely relationship between man and woman. We find some Sakharam Binders around us who though want equal rights to man and woman, yet the wild animal wrapped in a skin of lamb in their heart doesn’t allow to love women .Sakharam and Dawood, in Sakharam Binder and all co-actors in Silence! The court is in session think that woman is pound of flesh of them. For them, every woman is virtually her body – bones, flesh, curves! A woman is not identified with her intellectual, her ability, her intelligence, her courage or knowledge. She is just imagined as a sex object. That is why Lakshmi and Champa in Sakharam Binder and Miss Leela Benare and Mrs. Kashikar just remain puppets in the hand of man. If we try to enrich this relationship having any lesson from these plays, the purpose of Vijay Tendulkar to be ideal men-women will be succeeded.

REFERENCES: 1.Vijay Tendulkar: Collected plays in Translation, 2003, Oxford University Press. 2.Allardyce Nicoll: The theory of Drama, 1969, Doaba House, New Delhi.

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Urban Fashion Street Wear The City Look

The world of urban fashion has come a long way since its mere beginnings in the 1970s. Urban clothing, also known as hip-hop clothing, street wear or the city look has expanded to now being created by some of the lead designers around the world. Urban fashion started in New York, New York. Quickly after, the trend spread to other large cities, including that of Detroit, Los Angeles and Chicago.

When hip-hop music started to become more popular in the late 1970s, listeners began following the fashion guidance of such popular hip-hop artists. Brands such as Nike and Adidas began to skyrocket with shoe sales. These shoes and track clothing articles were modeled after artists such as L.L. Cool J and Run DMC.

After street shoes had grown in popularity, then did accessories such as: extra-large sunglasses, gold and silver plated necklaces and oversized earrings. Hip-Hop artists such as Salt n Pepa sported their baggy jeans, with large hooped earrings and plated jewelry. Both men and women alike expressed interest in the new style.

In the early 1990s a dramatic change in colors began with respects to urban clothing. Neon and brightly colored shirts, pants, hats and accessories began to be worn. Such clothing was mixed and matched to create a bold look on the streets. T-shirts that looked as if they had been spray painted, or tagged also become popular, imitating a look that projected what was actually seen on the streets.

During the mid 1990s famous hip-hop artists caught on to the trend, and started becoming designers for their very own lines of urban outfitting. Certain brands that were already established also grew in popularity, like that of Tommy Hilfiger, which was strongly represented by Puff Daddy and Snoop Dog. FUBU jeans also started to increase their sales, thanks to Nelly and his crew.

Besides designer pieces, general pieces of clothing also started to become popular. Shirts with hoods, now referred to as, hoodies, are now a piece of most every individuals closet space. Oversized, solid t-shirts also became a popular look, with street denim. The plain Ts created a blank canvas for oversized accessories or designer jeans to stand out and be seen.

Urban clothing designers today are focusing their attention on Generation X. Generation X is a more savvy audience in that they have taken fashion designers best creations only to mix and match them and make them their own.

While bohemian chic and the grunge look was used for quite some time by urban Xs as a weapon in politics and rebellion, this group is now seeing that the true spirit of fashion is not just about breaking rules for the sake of it but exploring how the rules can relate to the way they seem themselves in the world. This group is asking how they can express their individuality.

This generation of urban consumers have also become quite sophisticated in understanding how their clothing ought to fit and how fashion works. Designers are responding to this, making alterations such as designing mens pants that hang from the waist and reach just above the shoe for a classy look or designing traditional dress shirts and tailored clothing. Both of these looks are making a new trendy statement.

For those urban street savvy individuals who arent into loud colors and yet want to maintain their unique look, fashion designers are giving them the best in denim wear and mixing it with a traditional sportswear.

How does this look? Graphic t-shirts that are not the clichd skulls on tees but have complex graphics on them. Comfortable jeans with nothing on them. Khakis, cotton pants, and even contradiction such as wearing a destroyed t-shirt beyond recognition teamed up with a pair of clean-cut jeans. Or vice versa.

Urban fashion always changed, as it should, lest everybody be wearing the same thing and nobody appearing unique.

Best dinner dress for men Fashion Show

Over the years, significant strides have been taken by the fashion designers all across the globe to give equal importance to men’s fashion when it comes to men’s fashion show during men’s fashion week. But what has really taken a big long leap is the dinner dress for men that are inspired from the mens fashion show and mens fashion week these days, not entirely though.

But what we see in mens fashion show and mens fashion week these days surely have played a major role in uping the look of those dinner dress for men. Long gone are the days, when being prepared for a dinner was all about wearing a suit, for, times have changed and so have the styles and process of choosing a dinner dress for men. Occasions play a major role in deciding what kind of a dinner dress for men will suit you, but wouldn’t it feel great when someone walked up to you and told you – hey I have seen something like this in one specific mens fashion show or during the recently concluded mens fashion week?

Here are few options that are high these days as dinner dress for men…

For formal events: Honestly speaking, formal events makes one task a hell lot easier when it comes to choosing a dinner dress for men as you already have few guidelines to fall onto. For a formal event, we would suggest a black-tie look that takes inspiration from any fashion event and you would also find people wearing it during mens fashion week as it is a symbol of class and chic style. And as a dinner dress for men they always leave an impeccable impression on everyone. Don’t ever think for once that you are limited to black and other muted, dark tones at the formal events, as for formal dinners you want to make sure that you look your best and let people say – that is some dinner dress for men.

Dinner as a first date: May be the idea of dinner for a date is old-fashioned but then it surely isn’t the cursed one. Trust us when we say that dinners for date can still woo any woman. There is every good chance that you would get to play around here for what you wear as your dinner dress. Once you have figured out what the restaurant has in store for you in terms of ambience and mood you can pick your outfit with ease. A chic shirt with formal trousers if teamed in right shades can give an impression of being inspired from a mens fashion show and why not? After all, you want to make sure that all those days that you have explore the latest trends while watching the mens fashion shows and mens fashion week do not go waste right?

The Ideal Gifts For Men

Wondering what to give your boyfriend, husband or your son for any of the special days of their lives? Do you find it hard to think of the perfect gift for them? Its not really that bad. You shouldnt bother yourself with these questions. Let me share some tips with you on how you can come up with brilliant gift ideas for the men in your life.

The first thing to do is basically know what they like. Do your share of research. Are they fans of basketball? How about Baseball or Hockey? Do they like Star Trek? Or are they the fashionable ones? Do they like collecting gadgets, or books, or other memorabilia? You should find this out to be able to determine which gift is best to give them. Its a matter of how you know the person youre going to give the gift to. Not because you find something you like means they will like it also, right? So better start to explore their world.

If your loved one is a sporty type, who loves to play or watch basketball, hockey, or baseball, you can give them those memorabilia about the sport. When it comes to basketball, it wouldnt be hard since that the game is so famous that you can see basketball items everywhere. NBA gifts are quite easy to find, so I am sure it will be one convenient idea to get your loved one these gifts. For hockey fanatics, there are NHL/Hockey gifts available for people of all ages. Also quite a popular game, hockey memorabilia can effortlessly be bought everywhere. As for guys who love baseball, MLB gifts are the perfect gift ideas. These are sure ball gift ideas men would enjoy if they are into sports.

If they are the fashionable or gadget freak type, phish for what they want. Try to bring them to a nearby mall and discretely observe what is grabbing their attention. But remember, you want your gifts to be surprises so dont spoil it. Do not ever give them a chance to get a hunch that you are just phishing. Just let yourselves enjoy the moment together, without letting him know your hidden mission.

Giving gifts has forever been so pleasurable. Its rewarding to see that the person you gave the gift to enjoyed it as much as you did when you are getting it for him. Looking for ideal gifts for men isnt hard at all. I actually think its much easier to read the mind of men when it comes to giving gifts. Its as simple as you like sports, Ill give you memorabilia. You like gadgets, lets look for the perfect one for you. No fret, no hassle. Just plain fun and satisfaction are guaranteed once you know what gifts to give the men you love the most. Yes, there are priceless gifts such as love and care, but physical gifts provide a different form of happiness. It may sound materialistic, but still its the thought and effort that counts.